What is at the core of your money beliefs and around wealth, abundance and money?
I was talking to a nutritionist at our Christmas party recently and she said she used to try to help people lose weight but it was an impossible task because if their heads weren’t in the right place, it didn’t matter what food she recommended they just couldn’t lose the weight.
If they didn’t believe they could be thin or if they didn’t believe themselves to be thin people then it’s a losing battle. an impossible task.
I have experienced a similar problem with some of my money clients who don’t believe they deserve to be wealthy.
The tricky thing with belief systems is that it can be difficult to admit to oneself that one has these negative beliefs in the first place.
It took me years to admit to myself that I have some negative money beliefs. I wake up every day feeling very positive about most things. I am someone who would be described as having a ‘sunny disposition’, I’m constantly looking at the silver lining and I know that the glass is half full, not a doubt in my mind… so it came as a huge surprise to me to discover that I had some really deep dark negative beliefs around earing a lot of money.
One of the problems around discovering we have a problem in the first place is that many of us have learned to talk in a ‘cocktail speak’ manner where we fudge the truth a bit and make our lives sound more glamourous than they actually are. With social media on the rise, we are programming ourselves to sound fantastic, our lives are wonderful and as though we have it all worked out #yay_wonderful_me!!!!
We get used to making things sounds better than they actually are and then we start to believe this new truth.
It is important to develop good social skills and speak positively in social situations (no one likes a Debbie downer) but it’s also important to spend some time truly reflecting and holding a mirror up to ourselves to identify the truth around our financial circumstances.
If you don’t know you have a problem then how can you treat it?
And if you drill down into the real core issues of what you hold true in your heart, what you truly believe deep down in the depths of your soul and discover the truth about your money beliefs you will be in a better position to fix the problem or change what is not working for you.
Some of the ways we can tell we may have a poor money mindset:
1. You have little or no money in your bank account or worse you are in debt.
2. Think back to the words your parents use around the subject of money. Were they quite negative, like money comes in one hand and goes out the other…
3. If you don’t feel safe around the subject of money if you feel uncomfortable dealing with your finances or looking at your bank account this discomfort could be a sign that you have some deep-seated issues around money.
The good news is that there are great ways to help heal these negative views of our self, there are great techniques you can employ to change your belief system.
Once you have identified your core beliefs you can start to do something about them. I cannot promise you a quick fix in this subject but I can offer you some quick wins… things you can do straight away to turn things around. Depending on how deep your beliefs are, will depend on how quickly you can turn things around. The good news is you can do something about it and you can start today. The sooner you start the sooner you will grow rich.
The answer is simple… It’s all about giving your conscious and subconscious minds evidence to the contract our original belief. Once your conscious and unconscious mind see evidence that you can become wealthy and that you are earning good money then your belief system will start to change for the better. You will have the evidence you need to start believing that you can be wealthy and you can earn huge sums of money.
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